We all want only nice and kind people to surround us. We spend months and years building our environment and maintain relationships with those we cannot be close to. But it happens the other way around - by chance, fate brings us with those who are not eager to bring good and light to our lives. Such people should be disposed of. In order to discourage such a person, you should follow a few simple rules.
Instruction manual
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Act on the contrary. Criticize this person, do not give him any concessions and try to joke everyone as offensively as possible for him. Black humor and public ridicule of both actions and the appearance of a person will at least cause a slight dislike towards you.
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Do not allow yourself compassion and pity for this person. If he will seek understanding from you, deliberately do not show sympathy, openly tell him that everyone gets what he deserves. Be cold and cynical.
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Openly flaunt your intolerance towards the shortcomings of others, and at the same time point him to them. Try to find his sore callus and step on it as often as possible. Do it in the presence of others, use humor to make him as painful as possible.
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One of the effective options is to get to know this person better and to know the system of his principles and priorities. After you find out why he communicates with people, try to make sure that you yourself become at least uninteresting to him. Ideally, you should be disgusted with him because of the inconsistency of your value system with its system of priorities.
Useful advice
If you decide to discourage a person, be ruthless to him - remember why you are doing this.