Without contact with people and interaction with them, life is unthinkable. People at work, in transport, even in their own home: they are everywhere. However, often communicating with others brings more disappointment than positive.
Intolerance is characteristic of modern people. These are the costs of the modern rhythm of life. Therefore, some are very difficult to adapt. They were told about them in childhood about love, friendship, their sincere manifestations.
Reasons for hate
Growing up children saw that others were driven by more prosaic motives. Instead of accepting the position as it is, individuals became embittered throughout the entire human race. People’s hostility is called misanthropy. Everyone who hates others is sure that it is his dislike that causes a lot of harm to others.
However, the hater is the only victim of his own feelings. Usually hostility just does not arise. There is a reason for the appearance. But this does not mean the objective nature of feeling.
There is no positive hate. Because of this feeling, wars, discrimination, violence and intolerance begin. Hate is often provoked by malice. But anger is characterized by speed. Hatred lingers for a long time. Its "owner" receives a lot of constant discomfort.
Envy is often the cause of hostility. Instead of accepting the limit of one’s own capabilities, a person is angry with others for having more resources. Hatred builds up, more and more hidden aggression appears, destroying the personality. There are many reasons for the emergence of misanthropy.
A difficult childhood provokes her, if the parents used dubious and even harmful educational methods, instilled in the child an inferiority complex so strong that as an adult he could not get rid of it.
Age of mazanthropy
Confident in his own inferiority, an individual cannot build a happy life. It’s easier for him to hate others, rather than change. Envy often leads to misanthropy.
Initially, people envy the qualities of others, material wealth. Success for them is an impossible task, it is easier to hate those who managed to achieve it, and to live in this state all the time. No effort is needed to develop and nourish hatred.
It grows on its own, filling the entire inner world of the victim. As a result of gaining negative experience from relationships, the seed of misanthropy can also sprout. In a depressed state, a person transfers the resulting negative to everyone else. It seems to him that everyone is waiting, as if to harm the unfortunate.
Instead of gathering strength after the strike, they inspire themselves that all people are equally bad. But the need for human participation does not go anywhere, in the end - dissatisfaction. Over time, anger replaces her.
Misanthropes often become in adolescence. At this time, a sense of superiority and maximalism are at their peak. To fall under the negative influence of delusions very quickly, and you can become a misanthrope for a long time. The results are very sad.
And in a conscious age, hatred will not go away. Gradually, it eats away a person from inside more and more. He does not even remember where the dislike of others came from. Nor will disappointment be long in coming. Everything very quickly places adult life in its place.
Understanding the phantom of their superiority over others leads to constant frustration, increasing hatred. Do not assume that misanthropy is the lot of losers. Completely held, successful and wealthy people are not safe from her.
Types of Haters
There are so many unpleasant personalities in society that even those who should enjoy life have something to hate people for. These individuals included Yegor Letov. Bill Murray, Stanley Kubrick, Friedrich Nietzsche.
Their example shows that envy is not necessary for those who hate people. Celebrities behind misanthropy hide long-standing grievances. Many in society notice only depravity and stupidity. In the split of society and all the distortions of wine, exclusively people are obvious.
Loser and superman
Due to their own inadequacy, misanthrope losers failed to become successful. Since they did not succeed, the poor people convinced themselves that they did not need this. Dissatisfaction grows into hatred.
Another type of haters consciously rejects the foundations of society, is engaged in self-improvement, trying to rise above the crowd, to become better than it. The inspirer of this trend was Friedrich Nietzsche with ideas about the superman.
His followers are independent, erudite. They maintain communication only with certain people, well aware of the futility of attempts to survive alone.
Techie
The techno-misanthropes are smart, even brilliant people. But they also have communication problems. They are so keen on business that they perceive others as a hindrance in achieving goals.
This type is found everywhere where technotrude is in demand. Noticing carriers is not easy. They silently engage in glands and do not pay attention to people. However, a well-working specialist is forgiven for a lot, so that others are willing to endure even the nasty character.
Victim of ideology
There are also those who became haters of mankind under the influence of ideologies, books or films. Such people are sure that the new image gives them an aura of attractiveness and mystery.
However, there is no certainty in their supposedly hatred, and hostility is far-fetched. Usually, over time, these people return to their usual way of life or are imbued with a new state so that they turn into true misanthropists.
The poor people suffer from such a transformation. To one degree or another, all misanthropes are unhappy. Sometimes embittered individuals try to leave the vicious circle, realizing that no ideas adorn the negative. If there is a desire to overcome the hostility, half the way is passed.