In modern society, there is a cliche that men go on treason more often and more willingly than women. This is not true. The ratio is about the same. It’s just that men's exploits often come up, women are more cunning in this matter. And there are reasons for this. The changing man in the eyes of society is a strong male, but the walking lady is criticized and shamed. So why do men cheat?
At the heart of male adultery is always some reason. No one will go to the side just like that if everything is fine in the family and the person is happy with the relationship. There are several main reasons for men's hiking to the left:
- Probably the most common factor is the sexual dissatisfaction of the spouse. Nature has decreed that men need sex more and more often than women. For the former, it is, rather, a physiological need, for the latter, a more sacred event. So it turns out: the husband wants, but the wife has no mood. And when such a situation becomes commonplace in the family, the spouse, consciously or not, will go to the side to seek satisfaction of his needs. Moreover, he can love and respect his wife, but sometimes give in to instinct.
- The tense situation, the constant scandals and conflicts in the family, the feeling of being unnecessary and insignificant also push the spouse into the arms of another woman. A man will always strive to where he is perceived as a strong male, supported and respected, even if for nothing. To be a leader, a leader, the main thing is the innate instincts of the male half of humanity. And if every day his wife calls him a rag and a wimp, then the likelihood of his betrayal will increase exponentially.
- A change may be the banal love of the missus. This also happens often: a spouse falls in love with another and leaves the family. In this case, even if the wife will carry it in her arms, the situation will not change. As the saying goes, you will not command the heart.
- And one more reason: the search for adrenaline. Gray weekdays can get anyone. And some representatives of the stronger sex thus receive a lot of emotions, a charge of energy that keeps them in good shape and gives strength to live. A deeper reason for this behavior is internal dissatisfaction with oneself, people and life in general. And this is a frequent request for working with a psychologist.
- The last “motivation” is stupidity. I got drunk and cheated. Pissed off and cheated. He wanted to take revenge and cheated. We are talking about going to the left in an altered state of consciousness or in a fit of emotion. As a rule, when he regains consciousness, a man regrets his action.
If a betrayal occurs in a loving and respectful pair, it is necessary to have a heart-to-heart talk and find out the reason for what happened so that this does not happen again.