The process of breaking up relations in most cases is rather painful. Especially if they lasted a long time and the partners managed to become very attached to each other. However, life does not stand still, do not become locked in yourself and do not go in cycles in it. Pass this life test with honor.
Unfortunately, this happens in life, and any relationship ends, love disappears. The breakup is less painful if it is carried out by agreement of both partners, however, if this is not so, then the loving half suffers greatly.
In the latter case, it is necessary to show tact and patience as much as possible. In the process of separation, the following basic rules must be observed:
- do not offend your partner
Try to leave as friendly as possible. Do not try to hurt each other as much as possible during the conversation. Offensive remarks are similar to a ping-pong game, everyone tries to have the last answer and to hurt his partner as painfully as possible. However, none of the partners will be happy from this.
- tell him the truth
Talk frankly. Calmly and gently tell your partner how you feel, and ask him to do so in response. Let your words sound sincerely. A conversation will bring pain, but it will be purifying and provide relief.
- part with friends
Do not “burn bridges”, keep friendly relations as much as possible. Try to part with your friends.
Parting is not easy for both women and men. During the relationship, the partners manage to get used to each other, become emotionally attached, become family. After this, it is very difficult to break the existing ties, even if they have become obsolete, so before you enter into a relationship, you need to realize a certain degree of responsibility to each other so that it does not hurt so much.