In the course of recent research in the field of psychology, it was proved that by practicing a lie, a person raises the level of his own intelligence. However, no one wants to act as a cheated. Fortunately, there are several ways to find out the truth.
Instruction manual
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Pay attention to the voice and speech of the interlocutor. Liars, as a rule, are expressed allegorically and go around and around. Their speech is replete with interjections, such as "eh-eh" or "mmm", testifying to indecision and doubt. In addition, during a lie they unconsciously raise their voices.
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Take a closer look at the person you are talking to. When a person lies, he looks directly into your eyes without blinking, or, on the contrary, does not look at you at all. At the same time, a man is studying the floor, and a woman is studying the ceiling. The same emotions are noticeable on the right and left parts of the face, but the synchronism of muscle work is inconsistent. This gives the impression that on one side of the face the emotions are more pronounced.
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Watch the gestures. Often, it is gestures that betray lies. Having lied, the man will straighten the knot of the tie, and the woman will touch her neck. A liar rubs his hands or drumming his fingers, and also scratches his face, head or neck, touches his earlobes and rubs his eyes. It is common for a liar to fumble clothes, a pen or keys, rearrange objects from place to place, or touch them too often. Combing hair, curling curls or pulling strands also indicate nervous tension and fear of being caught in a lie. In addition, the liar is trying to find support in the form of a wall, table or back of a chair.
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Pay attention to whether gestures correspond to what is being discussed. Often, liar gestures are not consistent. For example, expressing denial aloud, he can nod, unconsciously testifying to the contrary.
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Listen to the words. If the interlocutor assures you of their own veracity, keep in mind that it is definitely not worth trusting him.
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Pay more attention to detail. During a lie, a person tries to embellish the overall picture, forgetting about the small details. Suppose your man tells you a terrific story about how he was at a bar with a friend. Engage in a casual conversation about this and in between ask what his friend was wearing. If your question confuses him or he begins to hardly think out the details, he is trying to hide something. And vice versa, the more details he tells you, the more sincere his story will be.