“Whoever praises me better than anyone will get a sweet candy!”, The heroine of the popular children's cartoon repeats. Everything seems to be simple. But only as adults do we realize that the art of praise needs to be learned. Simple tricks will give you the opportunity to express your enthusiasm without feeling awkward.
Instruction manual
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Outright flattery is a powerful weapon. She can confuse the interlocutor, but always hits the target. Enthusiastic words expressed bluntly in person are usually remembered for a long time. This method has only one drawback - you may be suspected of insincerity.
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If you decide on direct flowery compliments, pronounce them confidently. You can even rehearse in front of the mirror, then you definitely will not forget your speech from excitement. It is also important to choose the right place: it is quite appropriate to pour out your enthusiasm at a holiday, party, but you should not suddenly bring down emotions on a pretty colleague during a workshop. Feelings feelings, but the rules of etiquette have not been canceled.
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Expressing delight, make it clear to the interlocutor that you do not expect reciprocal emotions from him. Otherwise, the effect of the outpourings will be the opposite - the subject of your admiration will begin to avoid you. This behavior is understandable. Admiration is, albeit a positive, but still an assessment. Not everyone likes to feel this kind of attention all the time.
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A finer way to express enthusiasm is to write a letter in verse or make a gift. But if in the first case you have to torment yourself with the selection of the right words, then in the second, your offering will speak for itself. It’s better to save expensive gifts for special occasions, and now a cute bauble - a soft toy, a funny cup or sweets will demonstrate your good attitude.
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If you can’t wait to confess your love to a famous artist, you should not watch him at the entrance and throw yourself on his neck with a warm embrace. Your idol will be pleased with a bouquet or a basket of flowers where you can put a card with the most sincere wishes for success in your work.
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Nevertheless, the best way to show your good attitude is expressed not in words but in deeds. Especially if the subject of your admiration is a loved one. Do not waste words in vain. Just do what he expects from you. Sometimes it’s just a delicious dinner, a leisurely walk, simple human participation.