Some people are always surrounded by friends, relationships with colleagues can only be envied, and their family is an example of an ideal relationship. They know how to profitably file themselves so that they are appreciated. Anyone who wants to succeed in life can learn this.
Instruction manual
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In order to be loved by others, first of all you need to work on the perception of yourself. Always remember that you are a person worthy of respect and love, you are interesting no matter how you were perceived by a stranger.
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Do not get hung up on yourself. If you constantly think about how you will look in a particular situation, how others will perceive you, sooner or later you will close yourself, shyness and unwillingness to open up to people will appear. Get rid of embarrassment, communicate with people, recognizing them as closely as you would like. Sometimes it will not be out of place to present the most unpleasant outcome of events. Then you will understand that no disaster will occur, and you can become more open.
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Be friendly. This quality should go with you through life and not leave in any situation. A smile will make you the person you want to talk to. A confidential conversation, which does not have the goal of subordinating the interlocutor, will become an occasion to continue communication with you.
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Watch how you speak. Subconsciously, people around you will perceive the calm pace of speech as a sign of prudence and poise. Too fast a pace will be an indicator of your desire to say too much, and most likely that which does not have much value. Try to pause, slow down your speech.
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Keep your back straight and your shoulders straight. This position of the body will not only make others feel your inner strength, but you will also feel more significant and more confident in yourself.
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Keep it at ease. Do not try to spend too much effort to please others. The establishment of contacts will occur gradually, because to begin with your new colleagues or acquaintances you just need to know. Be yourself, do not try to adapt to every new person in your life. Keeping your personality, you do not lose personal value, but only add it.
Useful advice
Do not forget about sincerity. The desire to please everyone can lead you to the fact that you will begin to praise everyone indiscriminately. Only evaluate out loud what you really like. Give compliments when you think that the merits of a person are worth it.