How to become respected, increase your authority in the classroom - these questions often worry teenagers who are not very popular among peers, more often this worries newcomers. But it’s easier to make it brand new than for those who have been studying in the classroom for a long time, the opinion of whom has already developed.
Instruction manual
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If you are firmly determined to gain popularity, it will be a big mistake to curry favor with leaders. It will not cause respect, you just become one of the retinue. Do not go without a cause of confrontation, but do not cuddle.
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The best way to get fellow practitioners interested in their personality is to be interesting. Do not hide your skills and talents, but do not brag about them. Just wait for a reason to show them. It can be anything. Maybe you are a great dancer or athlete? Or can you easily explain the difficult task? Or do you know how to program and understand the computer? Or are you doing parkour? Feel free to get to know. You will definitely find a like-minded person who will respect you for your skills or capabilities.
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Do not be afraid to be alone. This is better than being imposed. Easily make contact, be friendly, but do not let yourself push and control. Those who allow themselves to be commanded will never gain respect. And by the way, a loner can attract more attention than a person from the crowd.
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Do not succumb to provocations - you should not just do what is unpleasant for you to be accepted into the company. Do not drink, do not try drugs, do not poison someone weaker. If you are not respected by drug addicts, maybe it’s for the best. If you are strong, to defend your position, then this will benefit both your authority and your life.
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Try to keep abreast of class events, to know what is interesting to the guys around. Maybe you also share this interest, and common hobbies will help to establish contact with you. Try to help someone with something, if you really can do it.
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A good way to melt ice in a relationship is to have a party, especially if you have a summer cottage in the country. Arrange with your parents and send out invitations to the whole class. You can show your imagination and have a theme party, or arrange a joint viewing of an interesting movie for everyone, and then a home disco.
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In any case, remain yourself, however lonely at times. Try to develop yourself - look for new hobbies, activities, gain new knowledge. If you have a rich inner life, if you are an interesting conversationalist and a benevolent person, you will certainly win someone's respect.