Sometimes finding a common language with a person is quite difficult. The most common reason for misunderstanding is different temperaments. After all, it is the temperament that determines the communication and behavior of your soulmate.
Sanguine
People with this type of temperament are sociable, emotional and unstable. In an instant, they have a keen interest in the conversation, and after a moment they get bored and miserable. To get along with a sanguine, follow simple rules.
- Try to constantly surprise them, otherwise the sanguine mind’s sharp mind will not endure routine and mediocrity.
- Be prepared for the fact that sanguine people like to be in the spotlight. Everyone likes them, without exception.
- It is extremely important for sanguine people to feel support and approval of their actions. Support them, be interested in hobbies and undertakings.
- For the sake of a kind word, the sanguine will roll the mountains on his way. Praise him, express his enthusiasm for his actions - and you will see how words work wonders.
- Do not demand much. "Seven Fridays a Week" is about them. Sanguine people very quickly switch from one hobby to another. If they are carried away by any idea, then do not rush to indulge them. It is possible that tomorrow the euphoria and desire will subside.
Choleric
Outbreaks of emotions, uncontrollability for choleric people are a commonplace. They actively, enthusiastically and on a grand scale embark on a new business. But soon their interest may subside. These people are extroverts. Often find themselves in conflict situations. If one of the family members is choleric in temperament, then you need to know how to quickly resolve the situation without bringing it to a protracted conflict.
In order not to fall under the "hot" hand of a person with such a temperament and not to make mistakes in communication, you should know the secrets of behavior with him.
- You need to talk with choleric clearly and loudly. They do not tolerate murmurs and insecurities.
- They easily recognize falsehood and flattery. Only sincere compliments can they be drawn to themselves.
- If there is a controversial situation with choleric, then do not "pull the blanket over you." Try to persevere and calmly express your arguments, reinforcing them with positive comments and emotions. In no case do not be nervous and do not raise your voice - this will become an impetus for the conflict.
- They prefer to be leaders and dominate their partner. Ask the choleric to explain how he sees the outcome of the controversial situation. Or invite him to do the criticized act according to his rules.
Melancholic
Melancholy people are very vulnerable, vulnerable and insecure. In order not to hurt their subtle nature, follow simple rules of behavior.
- People with such a temperament need sincere praise and constant approval. Criticism and rudeness are considered unacceptable for a melancholic.
- Do not be serious, with emotion to their spleen. You are wasting your energy and nerves in an attempt to stir up a melancholy. Their essence is to complain, be offended, and experience frequent, invented ailments.
- Do not take invitation cards, hoping to stretch the melancholic to a noisy party. They like passive relaxation. Reading a book or gatherings at home is the best pastime for a melancholic.
- Be condescending to their love of being late. In melancholy, time flows more slowly than in other people.
Phlegmatic person
People with this type of temperament are slow, thoughtful, carefully weigh all their decisions, actions, plan meetings and events long before their implementation. Therefore, they will not appreciate the effect of surprise and surprise.
- To find a common language with a phlegmatic person, do not try to prove your opinion to them. They do not tolerate exactingness, and trust only their choice.
- Do not expect from phlegmatic open manifestations of feelings and emotions. They will leave negative or positive thoughts to themselves. And if you want to get along with a phlegmatic person, then you need to reckon with this.