Differences between people can lead to conflicts and the spoiled mood of both sides of the dispute or become a cause for mutual accusation during a friendly conversation. Only on your attitude to others depends on how the communication ends.
Instruction manual
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Look at yourself before blaming people for the relationship that has not developed between you. If you are in conflict with one or two acquaintances, having a wide circle of friends, then this is quite normal, but if you have only a couple of people with whom you occasionally correspond or meet, then the reason for the rejection lies in you. Try to understand why relations with others do not go well: you may close yourself, don’t make contact, build a dialogue incorrectly, think too highly of yourself, or constantly criticize everyone. Having found the reason, begin to work on yourself, making yourself better and friendlier - the result will be harmony not only with others, but also with yourself.
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Do not pour negativity on people, because they strive for positive communication and avoid evil attacks in their direction. Try to realize the idea of American priest Will Bowen, who offers to live 21 days without complaints, criticism and gossip, to become happy. The essence of this method of self-improvement is to put a bracelet on your hand as a sign of rejection of the negative, and if the promise is broken, that is, you complain, express criticism or start gossiping, then you need to put the bracelet on your other hand and start the countdown. Only when you can carry the bracelet on one arm for 21 consecutive days, the task will be considered completed. In order not to express negativity in words, you have to get rid of it in thoughts, which will change your life for the better.
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Look for the good in people to be friendly to them. Absolutely bad people do not exist, and you will be wrong if you have such an idea of those around you. It is necessary to take a closer look at the person - he will definitely find positive aspects. And then be sure to give him a sincere compliment, because it is not enough just to know that he is good, you also need to set him up for a positive attitude towards you, so that further communication will bring only pleasant emotions.
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Smile A displeased facial expression repels others, and a smile, on the contrary, attracts and gives a good mood, including to you. Outward benevolence will help you establish a conversation with people even when inwardly you are closed and taciturn. If you are criticized, provoked to quarrel or try to hurt, smile back at these attacks - this will bring down an aggressive mood and reduce stress, so that you will avoid resentment and bad mood, and those around you will respect you.