"Everybody lies!" - says one doctor from the famous television series. But all the more valuable are the moments of truth when the interlocutor does not lie, does not embellish and does not evade. One must learn to notice this so as not to accidentally offend a person with his distrust.
Instruction manual
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There are several types of lies. The most famous is probably a lie for salvation. In childhood, you lie to your mom that you ate soup for lunch, at the university - that the graduation project is almost ready.
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The second kind is the lie of concealment. In almost any case, information can be submitted in such a way that it will work for you, while hiding minor details.
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A lie for a red word - embellishment of their actions in order to achieve respect for themselves.
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Manipulative lie is a deception in the usual sense of the word, designed to ensure that with the help of lies to achieve any actions from the opponent. And the provocative lie is designed to learn the truth from the interlocutor with its help.
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Lies have their own symptoms. During the conversation, carefully monitor the interlocutor. He will blink more often than usual, his voice will become monotonous and even slightly sleepy. He will not look in your face, but a little to the side. Before telling a lie, a person will pause.
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Recently, there has been plenty of such information on how to recognize a liar in books and on the Internet. Of course, some people try to control themselves. But such a lie can be easily recognized. Please note that the liar who controls himself will have an unnatural smile, a tense face and narrowed pupils (after all, he tries to look into your eyes, although he wants to turn his head away). Your interlocutor will bring a lot of facts proving his case, which he would not pronounce if his words were real.
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Pay attention to the intonation of the interlocutor. Pay attention to the pitch in the phrase in which the person definitely didn’t lie (for example, before the start of the conversation, your friend said that he recently came from a vacation or bought a new sweater). And based on intonation, draw conclusions about whether your interlocutor is lying. After all, even the phrase "I love you" can be pronounced in such a tone that it becomes clear - it means the exact opposite.
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Gestures can say a lot. It is difficult to believe a person who reports that he knows what to do, and at the same time scratches his head.
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However, you should not immediately conclude that a person is lying, on the basis of pauses in speech, changes in intonation and gestures. A person may be worried, perhaps before meeting with you some important event happened to him, and he still experiences emotions about this. In the end, your interlocutor can simply comb his nose. But wide-open eyes facing you, a calm voice and a relaxed pose can immediately say that a person is telling you the truth.