The thirst for fundamental changes at times covers everyone. There is a feeling of “everything, I can’t do this anymore” and the awareness of the need to change my reality. But how to understand what to undertake in the first place and what to rely on further? After all, desires do not always come to us “complete” with a plan for their implementation.
Instruction manual
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Accept the current state of affairs. Humble yourself, give in, give up - choose which version of the word surrender you like best. Because arguing with what is is a waste of energy and time.
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Make sure that the time for parting with the old and making a new one is chosen correctly. Time is a key factor on the road to change.
It is better to leave everything as it is than to act out of place. When is the time? When you are able to act not out of hatred and other negative feelings, but out of a creative impulse and inspiration. About this state they say "the wave has gone."
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Do not hurry. Act meaningfully and with ease. This attitude will help you look around and understand which area is better to start with.
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Do not try to explain the changes that you will make from the point of view of everyday logic. Rely on your inner feelings and requirements of the present.
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Do not be afraid to follow your vision. Even if you make a mistake, the benefits of such an experience will outweigh many times.
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Start with what attracts you to the execution process.
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Use your discontent creatively. Transform wording about unsatisfactory things into positive attitudes about what you want to contribute, and concentrate precisely on them.
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Start changing your life where you can. To become successful, the process of change must be a pleasant and joyful event for you.
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Seek advice from your mentor. Find a person whom you respect and admire, and then follow his instruction to begin your changes.
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Give up the idea of changing something in your life. What? And so good, are you happy with everything? Then it is not worth starting, it is unlikely that such weakly motivated efforts will produce something worthwhile.
The picture is different, and you can’t wait to get started? Great, then go ahead!
Useful advice
Remember: only he who does nothing is not mistaken.
Champagne in case of a successful risk is not necessary to drink, but to start something is a wonderful event, mark it without fail!