Insecurity and fear of communication with a man not only spoils the mood of a woman, but also negatively affects her personal life. Overcoming this inconvenience and opening up is a rather difficult task, but following our advice, you will be able to solve this problem.
Instruction manual
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First, think about what exactly scares you and makes you close yourself in front of men: are you afraid to find yourself in a bad light, look stupid, be offended? But imagine that even if in the worst case scenario this happens, you can just leave and stop communicating with these people. But the fact is that this will not happen. Stupidity and uncertainty will make you stupid. And remember that fear is always stronger than what you fear.
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Imagine various meetings with men and acquaintances in your head. Model how you will behave, that you say that you will answer a particular question. This is very useful, since living a situation destroys its significance and fear.
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Communication on the Internet can become for you a certain school for the first time. You will not see the interlocutor, and this will somewhat liberate you.
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Do not look away if you met them with a masculine look somewhere in the transport or on the street. Do not be afraid to look at the representatives of the opposite sex for more than one second, believe me, they will not eat you, but light flirting can give you a good mood.
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Smile Firstly, with such a simple sign you will show the interlocutor that you are positive towards him, and secondly, you yourself will gradually be imbued with confidence and calmness. As the saying goes, "a smile will brighten everything."
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Imagine that you are not talking with a great guy, but with a colleague, old friend, or relative. You will see how unnecessary emotions and excitement leave you and cease to interfere with pleasant open communication.
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Choose common conversation topics. Sports, weather, travel, a favorite dish - it's easy to talk about all this, and, besides, such unobtrusive communication can bring two people together.
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Do not chatter. Many girls in excitement begin to talk a lot and quickly, while blushing and panting. Sometimes it is better to remain silent than to utter incomprehensible sentences, embarrassing others.
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A compliment to a man is always very flattering and pleasant. Having said that this sweater suits him very well, you will add more confidence and interest to the atmosphere of communication.
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And, most importantly, more practice. To learn how to be open and confident with men, you need to meet daily with a wide variety of members of the opposite sex, whether a colleague or a fan. Do not avoid big companies with unfamiliar guys, because thanks to this, you will soon be able to overcome yourself and become free.