It is believed that in a relationship one partner always loves more than the other, that one sincerely loves, and the second only allows himself to be loved. So what is the best position for a woman to take in a relationship with a man - to love or be loved?
The choice of position - to love or be loved - depends on the nature of the woman. It is believed that women are creatures more sensual, gentle and surrendering themselves without a trace for the benefit of other people. This is often found in relations with a man, and then in marriage: a woman gets acquainted with a man, falls in love, arouses interest in a partner and is now ready to be only with him. At the same time, for the sake of love, she can do anything, fulfill any desire of her young man, meekly endure his whims and wishes.
There is the opposite situation when a woman only allows a young man to take care of herself, give gifts and flowers, and take her on trips. Her partner is so captivated by her beauty, strength of character and charm that she falls in love without memory, wanting only one thing: so that the object of his love draws attention to him.
Which side to choose?
None of these positions is ideal in relationships, but any of them is possible in real life. The choice of position depends on the characters of both partners. If a woman is used to giving more to other people, constantly taking care of someone, most likely, for her there will be a more desirable position of loving. It is entirely possible that she will subconsciously pick up a partner whom she can admire, or who can be taken care of, receiving in return a peculiar permission to do this.
Such a couple can look quite harmonious if both the woman and her partner receive exactly what they need in the relationship. In the end, to love is the highest form of manifestation of sympathy and affection, it gives so much that people who can only accept love will never feel this.
However, if a girl is accustomed to taking more from relationships than investing in them, the position of the one who only allows herself to love will be more convenient for her. This is also a fairly common role of women in relationships. For this, a girl, as a rule, should have a fairly solid character, be well versed in men and be confident in her beauty and sexuality.